Desensitisation
Definition
A staged reduction of the target's resistance to sexual topics or contact, achieved in grooming through gradual introduction of sexual content, normalisation references, and testing reactions before escalating further.
- Context
- Online grooming behaviour
- Mechanism
- Gradual introduction of sexual content and normalisation references
- Purpose
- Lower the target's resistance before escalation
- Evidentiary use
- Chat log staging pattern in grooming prosecutions
Common questions
How does desensitisation show up in a chat transcript?+
Investigators look for a progression across a conversation history: early messages stay non-sexual, then sexual references appear in small increments, often paired with comments like 'that's normal' or references to other people doing it, with the offender watching how the target reacts before going further.
Why does the staged pattern matter for a case rather than just the final message?+
A single sexual message can be explained away as a mistake or a one-off, but a documented sequence of small escalations shows deliberate testing and planning, which speaks to intent and premeditation rather than an isolated lapse.
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